Small auto 9mm handguns have stiff recoil springs and chambering a round can be a bit hard for most women. The mid size 9’s are a bit better but heavier to carry. I’m not a .380 fan but but that’s what I bought for my daughters due to them not being able to chamber the small 9’s. I know you didn’t ask for all this info but it is things to consider. I don’t know anybody that has one for sale right now but will ask around.